Friends forever...
I met her first time in 1998...first day of my college...the so called Virgin tree in Hindu college...we started talking while standing in the long que for getting our new i-cards made.We both happened to be in the same class...statistics hons.We were both starving after that and thought of grabbing a bite from the canteen and walking around campus.Little did we know that the walk is going to last for the complete 3 years of college and will make us best friends.
Anu,call her my friend,comrade...
We would be in college at sharp 8 a.m.,irrespective of the weather-be it raining heavily,or a chilly December mning of Delhi...none of us cared...sipping tea at 'Jai Singh's'-a small dhaaba at the entrance of Hindu college.After chatting a bit with Jai Singhji we would go have garam garam samosas at the canteen...then one by one other friends would start coming...and the meeting point used to be the Virgin tree.Out of all 10 of us...just one of my friends used to have a cell phone...and it used to really fascinate us then.We used to spend hours sitting under that tree...all of us chatting everyday...God knows what,but time would always just fly past us..doing time pass...
everyone would leave by 2 pm. and me and Anu would then go to other colleges around campus and hang-out with our other sets of friends...try different food at different colleges...(food was another very important common thing between both of us...apart from common crushes ).
Allen bhaiya was our chowmein,banta(the kancha lemon) and aloo kee chaat waala bhaiya outside the college.Its unbelievable,but last year when I went to India,I went to my college to get my degree...and Allen bhaiya was still there...and he waved at me when he saw me and greeted me asking where my other friend was(referring to Anu)...he looked older than what he used to before...but the warmth in his smile was still the same...
Man...do I miss those days...those people...or what...
I havent met Anu since 3 years now...but I haven't been in constant touch with any other friend of mine like I have been with her.The way I relate to her,the way we clicked,the way we laughed...and still do...is what is most amazing!!!
There are absolutely no hang-ups...we both know that even if we dont talk for months...we are there for each other...
Love you honey,sugar,candy!!!
This one's for you...
Tujhpe qurban meri jaan,mera dil mera imaan
yaari meri kehti hai yaar pe karde sab qurban
M.P.K.
Decided to listen to songs from 'Maine Pyar Keeya' while at work today...and suddenly the scenes and dialogues from the film started flashing in my mind and geared me up and I had a smile on my face...
Few of them- as I repeat them to myself..
1.Seema- Ye kabootar mera hai...maine ise paala hai,ise train keeya hai- Agar mera bhai ise apna nishaana banana chahe to use poora haq hai...tum kaun hoti ho beech mein bolne waalee haan...lao is mujhe dedo...you bloody...
Prem:Seema...apnee zabaan sambhalo Seema...mind ur language
Jeevan-Hey Prem relax..take it eazy cool it ya..dosti mein to ye sab chalta rehta hai..chalo Suman Seema is maafi maango...
Seema(with attitude)- I am sorry suman!
2.Prem:Are maa ye rone kyun lagee...pita kee chitthee aayee hai,jee to bhar aayega hee...
3.Aajkal darwaaze pe knock kar ke aane ka zamaana nahee raha--Aajkal darwaaza lock karne ka bhee zamaana nahee raha
4.Auntyji...ye jalne kee boo yahan se aa rahee hai auntyji
5.ye zulfe hain tumhari ya resham ka jaal...kitne khushnaseeb hain woh chuhe jinhone katre tumhare baal..waah waah
6.aur fir dost to woh hota hai jis se milne ko jee chahe...baat karne ko jee chaahe...dekhte hee lage-thats my friend..aur fir ye cap bana hee dosti ke leeye hai...
7.Hota hai hota hai...Ab hum chal ke sota hai...
8.Jaanti ho ma mere baare mein kya kehti hai-kee jab main ulta shave karke raja coat pahenta hun tab main bahut hee dashing lagta hun...
9.Khane ke baad mujhe batana kee maa tumhare baare aur kya kehte hai....Main bore nahee hongi...
10.cig smoking is injurious to health...sehat ke leeye haanikaarak hota hai...arre waah inho ne ek baar kaha aur tumne bujha dee...aur nahee to kya...dosti kee hai nibhaanee to padegi hee...
and alot more...
And then the unforgettable antakshri...Maine Pyar keeya sure is a classic...
I have seen this paradigm jillion times...and can see it again anytime...
Meri Pyari Nani...
A different odor when she hugs me...
her hands full of wrinkles warmly moving in my hair...full of selfless love...
Nani...
my best friend...my chess buddy...my mentor...
I can talk about anything and everything with her...
My entire childhood I went to nani's house after school and then go back home in the evening...she would make lunch for me and Pooja, and wait for us every afternoon...summer vacation...entire 2 months with nani and nana...
She has different attributes abt her...sometimes very strong emotionally...and sometimes very weak...she was strong enough to bear my nana's by-pass surgery and yet sometimes weak enough to be in tears while talking to me on the phone...
I havent seen her since 15 months now...and I am sure she looks older than the last time I saw her...but nothing else would have changed for her...
she has been living the same routined life since years now and surprisingly she never gets bored...cooking,knitting,talking about her leg pains...which I would not really pay attention to then...but miss taking care of her now...her vast friend circle that never leaves her alone in the house,her fights with nana on trifle matters...the time I spend with them is just full of humor,love,warmth and care.
Nani...a warm hug and just to let you know that I miss you ALOT...and a thought about you makes me smile and brings a tear...